Tillamook County Women's Resource Center
Working to end domestic & sexual violence in Tillamook County since 1982

Trabajando para terminar la violencia domestica y sexual en el condado de Tillamook desde 1982

 

 

  Warning about internet domestic violence sexual assault Warning! Please read before proceeding  
 

Children's Issues

Information & Services Mid Valley Women's Crisis Service Spanish       

 

Tillamook County Women's Crisis Center


 

How to explain to a child . . .

What to tell a child . . .

 

You Have the Right to Be Safe!

in your home...

* Don't Try To Get In The Middle Of The Abuse!

It is not safe for you to try to stop the abuse or to protect your mom. Remember, it is your job to keep yourself safe!

* If You Can Get To A Phone Safely, Call 9-1-1!

Tell the police where you are and what is happening. The person on the phone will talk to you until the police arrive. Remember, you don't need money if you use a pay phone.

* Get To A Safe Place!

Practice how to get out of your home safely. Which doors, windows, or stairs would be best? Which neighbor can you go to for help?

* It's Not Your Fault!

Remember, the violence against you or against your mom is never your fault. No one has the right to hurt or threaten you.

Are you Afraid...

    At home?
    At school?

*Tell a safe person!

If you need to talk with a safe person about any of these problems, tell:
 

  • A Teacher
  • A Crisis Advocate
  • Your School Police Officer
  • Someone in your Family
  • Your School Counselor
  • Someone at your Place of Worship
  • Another Person you Trust


 

What is Domestic violence?

  • Domestic Violence is when one person uses hitting, hurting, name-calling, or threats to make another person do what they say. It happens with people that are married, divorced, dating or living together.

     
  • Domestic violence happens because one person believes they have a right to have power and control over their partner. It is not about anger, alcohol or drugs.

     
  • Domestic violence occurs in every part of our society.

     


 

What is sexual assault?

  • Sexual assault is any touching in any place or in any way that makes you feel uncomfortable.

     
  • It is OK to say NO if someone tries to touch you in ways that make you feel frightened, confused or uncomfortable.

     
  • It is not your fault if someone touches you in a way that is not OK. You don't have to keep secrets about those touches.

     
  • Some secrets are good secrets. An example of a good secret is a birthday gift. A bad secret would be if someone touched you and then told you not to tell anyone.

     
  • It is never too late to ask for help. You can keep asking until you get the help you need.

     
** Important Phone Numbers **
Agency  
Phone Number
Police  
911
Alcohol & Drug Abuse Hotline 24 hours  
1 (800) 821-4357
Child Abuse Reporting  
(503) 378-6704 or (1)877-317-9911
HIV/AIDS Hotline 24 hours  
1 (800) 342-2437
Mano a Mano  
(503) 363-1895
Planned Parenthood Hotline  
1 (800) 230-7526
Runaway Hotline 24 hours  
1 (800) 621-4000
 
Suicide Hotline 24 hours  
1 (800) 784-2433
 
Tillamook County Health Dept   (503)842-3900
Tillamook County General Hospital   (503)842-4444


 

Location   Office Hours
1902 Second St
PO Box 187
Tillamook OR 97141
Business Phone
(503) 842-9486
Fax (503) 842-6458
 
  Monday - Friday
9:00am - 5:00pm
Oregon Relay available
24 hours
Email: tcwcc@pacifier.com

TTY 1-800-877-8973
 


 
* 24 hour hotline: (503) 842-9486 or toll free in Oregon 1 (800-992-1679
August 2006 © Tillamook County Women's Crisis Center